Freedom is extremely important in any relationship. It is very unlikely that your relationship will go for a long time unless there is freedom in it. Let your partner do what he wants to do. Let him/her do the things which he/she likes to do. Don't control him/her. Don't ask him/her to what to do and what not to do, for if you do your partner will get annoyed and you will get disappointed as well. In the beginning, though, your partner might change his preference according to you but for how much time - a day, a week or might be a month but no more than that.